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The Single's Guide to Valentine's Day: 4 Unexpected Ways to Celebrate Next Friday

The Single's Guide to Valentine's Day: 4 Unexpected Ways to Celebrate Friday

 

How to Celebrate Valentine's Day If You're Single

A lot of people seem to have very strong opinions about Valentine’s Day. Some people spend the day running around proclaiming their love for a romantic partner. Others trudge around moping over how they’re single and hate love.  Few people feel rather indifferent towards the day. Regardless of your relationship status, here are a few ideas to improve your Valentine’s Day.

Want to know the secret to enjoying Valentine’s Day? Understand that Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic love. Learn to spend Valentine’s Day celebrating the love you share with those close to you, like friends and family. I was fortunate enough to grow up in a family that made sure to include their kids on Valentine’s Day. Our parents gave us cards and little boxes of candy each year. It brightened our day and reminded us that we were loved. Even if you weren’t raised in a similar environment, you can still create something similar for your own family and friends.

 

Valentine's Day Isn't Just About Romance

There are eight types of love, and four of them have absolutely nothing to do with romance. The first type of love is Philia, or Platonic love. This is the love that you feel for your friends when you care about them. The next kind of love is Philautia, or the love and respect you feel for yourself. You cannot learn to love others until you learn to love yourself and who you are. The third type of love is Storge, or the love that you feel for your family. This type of love is based on strong bonds, kinship, and familiarity. The last type of love is Agape, or the idea of unconditional love that is selfless and sacrificing. Many people see this as the love of humanity, or the love that God has for mankind.

 

Celebrate Friendship on Valentine's Day 

Fortunately for you, Valentine’s Day falls on a Friday this year. That means it is the perfect excuse to make plans with friends! You could take this as an opportunity to go out for drinks, or even plan something more low-key at home. The idea is to spend quality time with the friends that you cherish. "I had a slumber party with all my single girlfriends, and we played Mario Kart and watched movies and made pizza," says  Elleblairr, who has clearly discovered the best way to spend Valentine’s Day.

Alternatively, you could send cute friendship Valentine’s Day cards. Not quite sure of what to write? American Greetings has plenty of "Galentine's Day" card ideas. A card or note is a great way to send a little surprise and brighten up a friend’s week. If you have a friend that recently lost a loved one, we recommend reaching out to them to remind them that they are loved.

 

Celebrate Yourself on Valentine's Day

Take the day to embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Spend the weekend doing something that renews your energy and brings you joy. Find what it is that you love to do, and then set aside time to do it. You could write, bake, paint, exercise, or even take a nap. You could also use Valentine’s Day to pamper yourself. Treat yourself with a trip to the spa, or even have an at-home spa day. We have a list of inexpensive ways to pamper yourself.

 

Celebrate Family on Valentine's Day 

As mentioned before, February 14th lands on a Friday this year. That makes it the perfect opportunity to spend time with your own family. You could call up your parents or go out for dinner together. If you are a parent, you could spend time with your own kids. You could splurge and take them out to see a movie or grab dinner. If you feel that your budget is tight, we have a list of free activities to entertain the whole family. Have you ever made a heart-shaped pizza? Valentine’s Day is the perfect holiday to start a new tradition! 

Spending quality time is great, but you could also provide your family with inexpensive gifts or words of affirmation. Call your parents to thank them for raising you, surprise your child by putting a note in their lunch box, or even text your sibling to check in on them. The goal is to take a moment to bring your family happiness and remind them that you care.

Don’t forget about the pets! Show your furry family members some love too. You could give them an extra treat, take them for a longer walk, or even just spend an hour petting them.

 

Celebrate Humanity on Valentine's Day

Random acts of kindness go a long way, and can make you feel great about yourself and others. There are plenty of opportunities. Respectfully compliment strangers that you walk by on the street, congratulate your coworkers on their accomplishments, or tell your neighbor that their garden looks great. These acts of kindness take little-to-no time and could make someone’s entire day! 

There are other ways to make the day of people all around you. Give back to your community. Consider volunteering or donating to a charity or cause that is important to you. You could bring a bouquet to a local nursing home, either as a gift for the nurses or the residents. Surprise your postman or garbage man with a bottle of Gatorade or cup of coffee. You might even consider dropping off a bunch of uplifting cards at a local kids' hospital. For more ideas, check out Brad Aronson’s 103 random acts of kindness.

Romance isn’t the be-all end-all. When you’re in a relationship, you become dependent, have no personal space or time to socialize, and have to deal with a lot of baggage. Remember that there are many other types of love. I have many fond memories of hanging out with friends and family for almost every Valentine’s Day. I remember sharing candy with my class, trading dumb Valentine’s Day memes with friends, and even enjoying dinner with my parents.

 

What If I Still Hate Valentine's Day? 

Alternatively, if you’ve read this whole list and still plan on hating the holiday, we have two more ideas for you: 

If you want to focus on your relationship status, you can check Eventbrite for local single events happening in your area on the 14th. Many places hold public events like singles parties or speed dating. Or ultimately, you can skip Valentine's Day and look forward to the half-priced chocolate that goes on sale February 15th!

For more ideas, check out our Single's Guide to Valentine's Day Vlog.

 
 
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